Prom season is upon us, and whether you want to admit it or not, you're excited! Prom is something you'll remember forever so it's important to pick the right date. From Bustle.com, here are 8 types of people to consider when you're searching for the perfect date to make your magical night one you'll want to remember, as opposed to picking the wrong guy and having it a night you'll remember for all the wrong reasons.
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1. The One Who's Forever in the Friend Zone
You don't have any lovey feels for this person, but they sure do for you. For that reason, you will be treated like royalty all evening. You won't need to win the crown to feel like Khaleesi, because your date is using this already romantic setting to win your heart. Just be clear about how you really feel, but also be sweet about it because they have never been more vulnerable than right now.
2. The One You've Been Crushing on for AGES
It's like straight out of a '90s high school rom-com. You've had your eye on this person for so long, and they have FINALLY noticed you and asked you to prom. Much like the above situation, proceed with caution. Because now YOU are the vulnerable one. Ideally, the night will end with a magical kiss from your dream guy or girl on your doorstep. Worst case scenario, you find out that your crush is a d-bag and you're better off without them. Either way, you'll be just fine, I promise.
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3. The One You Reserved as a Backup
Let's be real. There's one person you really want to go with. If they don't ask you, you already have a backup plan. It's not mean, it's just math. That doesn't mean you dislike your backup, it just means the odds of you going to prom with a date are in your favor because you explored all scenarios. And bonus, the backup brings a lot less pressure for romance and magic, so you can just party and relax.
4. The One Who's Only There for the Crown
For some people, the title of Prom King or Prom Queen is a huge deal. At the time, it certainly seems like recognition that will matter forever. Spoiler alert: it won't. Even in college, nobody cares what you did or whose table you sat at in your high school cafeteria. But if you attend with a crown chaser, expect them to be distracted until the moment comes.
5. The One Who's Really Just an Acquaintance
You're single. He's single. Your groups of friends are distantly entwined, and you know each other's names. You both needed dates, so bang, boom, you decided to attend together. It's a giant question mark on the evening as a whole, so it could be fun or it could be terrible. The gamble itself will make the night an interesting one though.
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The One Who's Really Just an Acquaintance may not be the most romantic choice for a prom date, but it can be a fun option for those who don't have a significant other. It's a great way to get to know someone better and make a new friend.
This type of date works best when both parties are single and have a group of friends in common. It's a good idea to talk to the person beforehand and get to know each other a bit before committing to the date. That way, you can make sure that you're both comfortable with the idea and that you have similar interests.
When going out on a date with someone you don't know well, it's important to set boundaries and discuss expectations. It's also important to make sure that both parties are on the same page about what kind of night they're expecting.
When it comes to prom night, it's important to remember that this is a special occasion and to dress appropriately. Choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and comfortable. It's also important to make sure that your date is dressed appropriately and that they understand the importance of the night.
6. The One Who's Only Focused on the Post-prom Hookup
Prom comes with completely ridiculous expectations for sex, and there will be prom dates assuming the night will end horizontally. If you're ready for that, go for it (safely, of course). But if you're not and you can sense that your date is counting down the minutes until said hookup might take place, then make it clear you have zero interest. If your date seems annoyed or frustrated that they won't be getting any, then it's time to ditch them mid-prom and hang with your friends because he/she ain't worth it.
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The One Who's Only Focused on the Post-prom Hookup is a type of guy to avoid when choosing a prom date. Prom is a special night for many teenagers, and it’s important to choose someone who will respect your boundaries and make it a positive experience. Unfortunately, some guys will have an agenda of getting physical with their date after the prom. This type of guy will be focused on the post-prom hookup, and may even be counting down the minutes until that happens.
It’s important to be aware of this type of guy and be prepared to stand up for yourself if you feel uncomfortable. If you sense that your date is only focused on the post-prom hookup, make it clear that you are not interested in that. If your date is annoyed or frustrated that they won’t be getting any, then it’s time to ditch them mid-prom and hang with your friends.
7. The One Who Hates All Things Prom
Why is there always a prom-goer who seems to be there just to complain and protest the entire event? Why even go if you hate everything prom stands for? If this is your date, my condolences. But the one place this person will not be interested in is the dance floor, so set up shop in the middle with your BFFs, and don't return to your Negative Nancy until the end of the night.
8. The One Who's Naturally the Life of the Party
This is probably the best date to have at prom because they are down to dance, down to slow dance, down to small talk, and down for everything, really. This kind of energy is contagious, so if you've scored this person as your date, you've hit the prom jackpot.
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