Sometimes growing up we think we know everything, until we're actually grown and realize we don't. I know, I sound like you're mom right now, but there are some things about relationships every young girl should know.
Maybe you figured some of them out, maybe you're still in the process of learning these things. Whatever your situation, just know these are important things about relationships every young girl should know (heck, even the older ones can learn something here).
Table of contents:
- have rules and boundaries for yourself
- don’t kiss until you have established a title
- know what you want
- know what you will and will not do
- place yourself on a pedestal
- make sure you and the other person are on the same page
- ask questions
- ask older people for advice
- let everything you do benefit you
- don’t settle for anything
- set your expectations high
- know your worth
- keep your innocence as long as possible
- refrain from sex as long as possible
- protect yourself from heartache
- don’t take things to serious
- you’re young, you don’t know what you really want yet
- have fun and be safe
- don’t hide things from your parents
- don’t grow up to fast
- don’t be too quick to trust someone
- your family should be involved in relationships that are getting serious
- meeting your family lets him know he can’t easily take advantage of you
1 Have Rules and Boundaries for Yourself
Don’t let anyone change your mind about this.
2 Don’t Kiss until You Have Established a Title
Friends don’t kiss so be the girlfriend first.
3 Know What You Want
What are you looking for in the relationship? Once you know that, you can tell your guy exactly what you want.
4 Know What You Will and Will Not do
Let him know up front so he knows what to expect from you.
5 Place Yourself on a Pedestal
After all, you are the prize, right?
6 Make Sure You and the Other Person Are on the Same Page
Communication is the key in all instances.
7 ASK QUESTIONS
Don’t be afraid to ask him anything. He should be open and honest with you.
8 Ask Older People for Advice
Older couples know more than you and friends so get their advice.
9 Let Everything You do Benefit You
You do things in life for your own benefit, what you want and think MATTERS. Don't let him squash that, but pay attention to his needs too.
10 Don’t Settle for Anything
If he's not what you're looking for, move on.
11 Set Your Expectations High
If you want certain things from a person but they aren't there, move on! There are plenty of fish in the sea.
12 Know Your Worth
Remember that you matter too.
13 Keep Your Innocence as Long as Possible
Being pure is going to benefit you in the long run, you may not be with this person long, so be careful what you give up.
14 Refrain from Sex as Long as Possible
You don’t want to regret having sex if the person turns out not to be Mr. Right.
15 Protect Yourself from Heartache
Don’t try to fall in love too quickly, it will only hurt when it’s over.
16 Don’t Take Things to Serious
If you have a long future ahead of you, take things slow.
17 You’re Young, You Don’t Know What You Really Want Yet
You may change your mind on what you want 100 times before you truly know
18 Have Fun and Be Safe
A relationship with someone should be mostly fun and good times, but be safe in the process.
19 Don’t Hide Things from Your Parents
They only want to protect you.
20 Don’t Grow up to Fast
You’re an adult longer than you are a child so don't rush it.
21 Don’t Be Too Quick to Trust Someone
Trust has to be earned, so make him earn it.
22 Your Family Should Be Involved in Relationships That Are Getting Serious
This him see that you have support and a life that's separate from him.
23 Meeting Your Family Lets Him Know He Can’t Easily Take Advantage of You
Don't introduce him too soon, but don't wait too long either.
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