What to do when Your Friends Sometimes Suck 😭💩🖕🏼 ...

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Being left out is an awful feeling.

It’s hurtful and can completely change your opinion about those who are leaving you out.

It’s bad when anyone does it but it’s even more hurtful when you’re being left out by your friends.

These are some things you can do when you find yourself in this position.

1. Take a Closer Look at the Situation

Sometimes a situation isn’t what it seems.2

It may be that you weren’t really left out at all.

It could be that your friends were getting together to work on an assignment for a class you don’t have or something similar.

Many times, there’s a good explanation for things.

A lot of times we feel hurt when others never truly intended to hurt our feelings.

2. Give It Some Thought

If you feel you were truly left out and you’re not misjudging the situation then give it some careful thought before you do anything else.

Why might your friends have left you out?

Did you have an argument that may have made them distance themselves?

If it’s a situation where they just wanted to get together with another friend on their own, it’s probably not personal.

It’s best to make sure you were really left out before you approach it with any of your friends.

3. Mention the Plans You Were Left out of

If you’re sure that you were deliberately left out then it might be best to get it out in the open.

Only you can decide that.

Find a way to mention the plans you were left out of.3

Your friends may explain why they didn’t invite you or they may avoid the subject.

Either way, you’ve let them know that you’re aware you weren’t invited.

4. Talk to Your Friends about Your Feelings

If you feel it’s the right thing to do, go a step further and tell your friends how you feel.2

It’s okay to share that they hurt your feelings.

No, it may not be easy for them to hear but it wasn’t easy for you to feel, either.

True friendships can handle honesty.

The point of this isn’t to start an argument;

it’s to work out the issue so it isn’t repeated.2

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